Shared Experience Is Always a Co-Creation Agreement
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Any experience that is shared by two or more people is the result of all the people involved agreeing to co-create that experience. Even conflict can only occur if both parties agree to be in conflict. Any experience that is shared by two or more people is the result of all the people involved agreeing to co-create that experience. Even conflict can only occur if both parties agree to be in conflict. You can only experience that which is resonant with the vibrations you are currently choosing to be. If you 'believe' you need to be protected, you are attracting into your reality the very thing you 'believe' you need to be protected from.
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Bashar channeling on Shared Experience Is Always a Co-Creation Agreement