Soul Contracts: Pre-Incarnation Agreements and Free Will
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Bashar teaches that soul contracts are agreements made at a non-physical level before incarnating. Bashar teaches that soul contracts are agreements made at a non-physical level before incarnating. These contracts define the general themes, relationships, and challenges you will explore in a lifetime. However—and this is crucial—soul contracts are not binding oaths; they are more like invitations or orientations. You always have free will to change, accelerate, or abandon any contract while incarnated. The purpose of contracts is to provide a structured learning environment, not to trap you. Bashar explains that difficult relationships often reflect soul contracts where two beings agreed to play mirror roles for each other's growth. The 'difficult' person is actually your greatest teacher because they reflect what you refuse to see in yourself. He advises honoring contracts by recognizing their purpose, but never using 'it's my soul contract' as an excuse to stay in abuse or misery. You can complete a contract through consciousness growth rather than prolonged suffering.
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Bashar channeling on Soul Contracts: Pre-Incarnation Agreements and Free Will